Better Out Than In

It was late last night after class. But I knew we had to settle this after that particular 1 hour plus of awkwardness today on the way to church after work.

So...

We had it out through the phone. In a very rational manner.

And we both came to terms of remorse for what we had done and proposed an agreement.

我不想重蹈覆辙。我不想再被卷入恶性循环中。经历了这么多，如果什么都没有学习和悔改，那都是枉然的。

明年步入人生另一个阶段。走了生命至少1/4的部分了。有些功课不可以永远学不会。有些考验也不可以每年都考不及格。

说真的，我们真正认识还不算太久。很应该让彼此的友情有比较稳定和建设性的基础。感情和感动的确很会误导人犯错。一时的冲动，最大的错就是给魔鬼留下地步，让恶者有机可乘。

Though we ended up sacrificing a whole night's sleep, it was worth it. Coz we both felt so released and better. Better as in, better in terms with God and men(each other).

One or two years of getting to know each other better on a good friends' basis. Less going out alone with one another if possible. Support each other in prayer, good works and serving. Love, only with the clean pure love of God.

不要惊动爱情。

再看神怎么带领吧。

这一年里专心事奉，学习更认识神，更愿意爱祂，忠心工作，定心更爱身边的人。好好装备自己。

一起加油吧！